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(Sorry everyone, I seem to have accidentally set the comments on this post to closed. Should be open now.)

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Minor point: you use the phrase "if you can breastfeed" a few times. This is not quite the right way to think about the issue, because whether you "can" breastfeed isn't binary. Most mothers "can" breastfeed to some extent, but it imposes large--but finite--but only partially quantifiable costs. Examples include:

-- Serious nipple pain and injury, including bloody blisters, for the first 6ish weeks (eventually your nipple skin adjusts to the experience, but it takes a while)

-- Having to hide somewhere at work to pump several times a day, for 20-30 minutes at a time, instead of interacting with coworkers like a normal person

-- Having to plan all outings and socialization around opportunities to nurse and/or pump, because it's still awkward to do it in public

-- Never-ending storage/transport/supply logistics for pumped milk

These are only the ones I personally experienced. So "breastfeed if you can" is not an answer to the right question. The right question is whether, for a given person, breastfeeding passes a cost-benefit analysis. This may be very hard to determine even if you succeed in quantifying the benefits!

(I ended up happily sticking with breastfeeding and not doubting my decision much. From this, you can extrapolate how much higher the costs probably are for someone who is really on the fence.)

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